November 22, 2008
Connecting in New York City
The K2 Lounge where the Cabaret Cinema program takes place. Photo courtesy of the Rubin Museum of Arts.
New York is bursting at the seams with opportunities to meet new people, bond over shared interests and form relationships that may last a lifetime. In this fast-paced town, anything could happen in an instant. A new friend, a new love ... you never know what awaits when you decide to pursue options such as these:
In a city that's centered around culture, what better way to find a connection than to patronize the arts at a museum happy hour? That's right, New Yorkers have even elevated the after-work drinks to an art form. On Friday nights, check out the Rubin Museum of Art's Cabaret Cinema program. Between May and October, head over to the rooftop garden at the Metropolitan Museum of Art for cocktails and mingling with a view.
You'll have a ball working the Big Apple's Charity Benefit circuit. If you have the means, you can support any number of worthy causes and hobnob with fellow humanitarians at the same time.
The oenophiles and gourmets among you will be pleased to learn that New York is a veritable treasure trove of food and wine tastings. Clink glasses with wine lovers who share your passions or wax rhapsodic over the rich flavors at a chocolate tasting. Either way, you'll have no shortage of things to talk about.
If you're feeling spiritual, plumb the depths of the soul with like-minded seekers at New York's mega-popular Kabbalah Centre, where introductory seminars are followed by mingling in the lobby. Classes include plenty of stimulating discussion that you may want to continue over coffee. Spirituality gets physical at New York's world famous Jivamukti Yoga School, where you can take classes, attend workshops, improve your karma and enjoy the company of other transcendentalists.
If you like to get your body in motion, consider running with the New York Road Runners Club. If your penchant is for sprinting or distance, there's no better place to go to compare running times and find new jogging buddies.
If there's one thing you can count on in Gotham City, it's that every Thursday, Friday or Saturday night there will be art gallery openings. The opening receptions have a festive vibe and often include complimentary drinks and canapés. Conversation starters are built right in: They're hanging on the walls.
At the BAM (Brooklyn Art Museum) Eat, Drink and Be Literary series, you'll find that reading can be an interactive pursuit. For a modest price, you'll dine in style while rubbing elbows with some of the city's most voracious readers and the country's most esteemed authors, such as Michael Cunningham, Zadie Smith and Jonathan Franzen.
Once sufficiently inspired by the city's vast creative talent, you can do a lot worse than sign up for one of the many writing classes offered at the famous Gotham Writers' Workshop. This warm and welcoming writers' community promotes mutually supportive relationships between both aspiring and professional writers.
Whether you are a performer who's honed your skills to perfection or you're content just to sit and watch from the sidelines, you'll be thrilled to discover one of the city's best kept secrets – The Moth. This storytelling organization sponsors weekly storySLAMs, where audience members are welcome to come up on stage and tell their tale. And there are monthly story-telling extravaganzas that feature various local and national celebrities riffing on the topic de jour. The crowd is friendly, and the ambiance encourages mingling and lively discussion.
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